NJOY Pure Wand

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On the "Balance Ball" technique: Thread: My Hands Free Njoy Pure Wand technique that reliably leads to Super-O And if you don’t like the sensation of a new toy the very first time you use it, don’t give up on it just yet. “The first time we try anything, we’re doing what we call spectatoring, which is observing ourselves, how it’s going, what we thought, what our partner thought. We’re in our heads and not so much in the experience,” says Fleming. “So try, try again.” To make the Pure Wand work best for you, you’ll need to get fully aroused, use plenty of lube, and practice. "The more you try, the more likely it is that later, having an internal orgasm alone might work," says DiMartino. "The pure wand, once you’re turned on, is better for internal orgasms because it’s so curvy, so bulbous, so heavy, and so smooth." Pros: Rotating balls in shaft for G-spot stimulation; rumbly vibrations; three vibration speeds, seven vibration patterns, and three rotation speeds; arms can be controlled separately; waterproof Insertable vibrators: Internal erogenous zones like the G-spot can enjoy vibration too! An insertable vibrator will have a longer shaft than a clitoral vibe, and may have an upward curve that aims for the G-spot. You can use an internal vibrator on its own, or pair it with a clitoral toy for explosive blended orgasms.

We-Vibe has created many iterations of their signature C-shaped couples' vibe over the years, and this one is about as close to perfect as they've gotten yet. Like its predecessors, this one has two "arms": one goes inside the vagina to hit the G-spot, while the other sits outside on the clit. It's meant to be worn during penetrative sex, stimulating both partners at once, but I've also found that it works well solo. The Chorus's most unique feature, though, is its squeeze-control remote: the tighter you squeeze the remote, the stronger the vibration gets, which is much more intuitive in the heat of the moment than struggling to press buttons in the dark. The G-spot evokes confusion for a lot of people. Does it exist? How do you get to it? The Njoy Pure Wand is a beautiful, no-nonsense toy that will help you find and stimulate your G-spot with ease, and have some jaw-dropping orgasms to boot. The Specs I wasn’t particularly into G-spot play when I first started working at The Pleasure Chest," says DiMartino. "But then a bunch of coworkers were all really hyping [the Pure Wand] up to me, saying, 'You need to try this thing.'" Now, DiMartino is the person hyping the Pure Wand to friends, sexual partners, and pretty much anyone who walks into The Pleasure Chest. We hate to be the bearer of bad news, but the G-spot? Yeah, that doesn't exist. Sorry!! Ofc, internal stimulation is still very much a thing, and when done well, folks with vulvas may even experience squirting (aka female ejaculation). How can you achieve a sheet-soaking orgasm, you ask? You can get there with penetrative sex, oral sex, or by using fingers—and there are even sex toys for squirting that can help get ya over the finish line. And while there isn't a one-size-fits-all squirt sex toy that'll work for everyone, we've got plenty of suggestions that have reviewers gushing (heh). The smooth texture: Another plus of the stainless steel: It creates way less friction than a silicone toy would, and that makes the experience hella smooth. "I had a baby, and I tore while giving birth," says DiMartino. After that, they were nervous about having any kind of penetrative sex because they didn’t want anything to catch on their scar. "The Pure Wand was the first thing I started using again for penetration after giving birth," they recall. "The weight of the stainless steel actually helped break up some of the scar tissue through internal massage, and it was so smooth that I didn’t need to worry about friction that could cause further tearing."

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Even if squirting isn’t your goal, the Pure Wand is still an awesome toy to add to your collection. It has two differently sized ends, one pretty small (less than an inch) and one larger (about one and a half inches), which makes it a good toy for both people who haven’t played with penetration much and for those who like penetration a lot. "If you’re looking to explore penetration again, the small side is very small, and it can create the same stretching effect as with dilators," explains DiMartino. You can work your way up from the smaller side to the larger side. If you want truly excellent vibrations, sometimes you have to pay a truly exorbitant price. But for those of us who like a lot of power, it's worth the cash. This gorgeous wand has a body made of aluminum and titanium for a shine and heft that just screams "luxury." Sure, it's pretty heavy and needs to be plugged in, but it's one of my favorite high-end vibes because its power and beauty are practically unparalleled. If you're new and looking for tips, do not skip reading their Getting Starting wiki. Advanced users may find value in their Advanced Skills section.

Let us introduce you to the “ orgasm gap,” the fact that straight men reportedly climax during sex much more frequently and consistently than straight women. This is mainly because most women's main pleasure source, the clitoris, is often overlooked (or even totally ignored) during heterosexual penis-in-vagina sex. But get this, men, sex is so much more fun and interesting than putting tab A into slot B, especially once you get some fun-loving tools into the mix. How to Use: Follow the included instructions to set up the toy (they’re too complex to summarize here!). Control the toy with its corded remote control or by connecting it to the Cowgirl app. Pros: Eight pressure-wave settings; large mouth accommodates more clit sizes; flat “lips” create a better seal for more intense sensations; quiet; waterproofWhile nothing can be more subjective than an opinion on a sex toy, the efficacy of this legendary device designed to make it rain orgasms has actually been proven by science. A 2008 study found that over 93 percent of a group of 500 chronic anorgasmic women—meaning women with a persistent inability to climax—could reach orgasm using the Magic Wand. That finding, plus the consensus view of very happy magic wand owners I’ve spoken with over the years is what led me to invest in my very own Hitachi magic wand in 2012.