Cuckold Afternoon: Hotwife Humiliation (Humiliated Husband)

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My husband doesn't know, and only a few friends know about it, and they all told me that if I wasn't getting my needs met, to dump him. So it’s probably best not to keep repeating an old pattern of communication because it’s not working. Because you’re worried about causing a scene or making things embarrassing for others, you understandably fear what people might ‘think’ about the state of your relationship and your husband knows and uses this. Sadly though this doesn’t work because this approach prevents the person who is behaving unhelpfully from taking responsibility for what they do and making the necessary changes. The same things go through a woman's mind: was it the firm boobs, the tight ______, was she better at ______, did she please you more, did you get more excited, you never lasted that long with me, you didn't want it every day with me?

It’s so important to me that he speaks to me with respect (I’ve had previous relationships which were very unhealthy and disrespectful) so am I just desperate? But all the neglect that went on for years drove me to an emotional attachment with my childhood friend who had words of support and kindness and made me feel special and important.As he says: “the victim becomes captive in an unreal world created by the abuser, entrapped in a world of confusion, contradiction and fear. For example, if he’s rude to me I cringe with embarrassment and hope no-one’s noticed, rather than take him on directly and say “please don’t speak to me like that” at the crucial moment. Providing the tools people need to find their own recovery, hope, and healing in what feels void of any hope. I’m sorry to say that what you describe certainly ticks the boxes for some forms of emotional abuse.

Then when you hear "she didn't know what to do and just laid there not moving and never had an orgasm" what am I to think? A better response is: "Thank you, I accept your apology," creating a clear premise that your partner must own their actions.Seeking to inspire hope in those recovering from the devastating effects of infidelity or addiction. To enable personalized advertising (like interest-based ads), we may share your data with our marketing and advertising partners using cookies and other technologies.