Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders

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You might not have realized this when you picked up this book, but you have set out on a journey toward becoming something of a Dominatrix. As we’ve seen, it’s more likely that he’s eagerly embracing the idea; that he’s the one trying to persuade you.

They can be stimulating and arousing, but there’s no rule that says they have to be brought to life. Since there’s no internationally accepted scale for measuring the male libido, your man should record whatever numbers seem appropriate. For proper comfort and security, a tube-type device must satisfy several requirements as described below. This means that the snap of the lock, particularly the first time you close it but also subsequently, is a big event for him.

Your days together can hardly turn into one long kinky scene after another; that might sound like fun (particularly to him) but you still have your lives to live. After all, the best way for him to repay your gift of keyholding, and perhaps to earn the privilege of release, is for him to become the best mate he can possibly be isn’t it? Decent information, but I did not agree with everything, such as the insistence that a male in long term chastity needs to be milked regularly for prostate health. Part of that may be due to biology, though it sure also goes back to the way most of us have been brought up, with boys encouraged to be decisive and daring and girls encouraged to be desired and demure. If enforced male chastity is to be an everyday part of your lives from now on, then you don’t have to make a big deal about his new condition – it’s supposed to be normal, isn’t it?

And if you are a man – if you hope to persuade your wife or girlfriend to take control of your chastity – then you’d be well-advised to hand this book straight over to your better half. Products based on mass-produced handcuffs also tend to be less expensive than devices where the whole thing has to be custom made. For example, monks, priests, and various other holy men practice male chastity (or at least they’re supposed to), generally in the service of their god.

In what he thinks of as his ideal world, these tightly-scripted scenarios would occur in reality – he’d have the opportunity to live them out. It's a good book as an introduction for people who are asked to be a potential keyholder, as it's not very kinky oriented but mostly informative with a good emphasis on consent and exploring on your terms and pace.

Every monogamous relationship includes two people, either of whom is free to introduce new ideas, and either of whom is free to turn these ideas down. To the chastened male, his keyholder becomes the most beautiful, desirable, and unattainable woman in the world – and what man wouldn’t enjoy wooing and perhaps even winning such a woman, over and again? Go through the teasing part of Exercise One, if you wish – permitting him to give you as many orgasms as you desire. This book is for consenting adults who recognize that the adult activities they enjoy in private require correspondingly adult levels of responsibility and common sense.You can change your choices at any time by visiting Cookie preferences, as described in the Cookie notice. Right from the beginning, the author set-up the usefulness of the book: to bring back a required sexual tension for a man to rekindle his desire and focus his attention on his object of desire: his wife. By making these lists, you are defining the currency with which he will be able to earn and repay your gift, and creating the ledger that will show you (and him – remember that he wants you to enjoy this, too) that the effort has been worth your while. Finally, by taking control of his own masculinity and by handing part of that control to his keyholder, the chastened male is set free to focus less on self-gratification and more on his life-partner, home and family. You might find it better to defer enjoying him fully until he’s calmed down a little, and thus able to offer you his full sexual attention for as long as you desire.