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You can’t ask questions directly though. Instead of asking whether or not he’s faithful, tease him and make him feel he can be himself. Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus says this is normal female behavior. Helping Without Emasculating
Every man who’s had sex knows it feels great, but if all a guy was looking for was that euphoric release he would be content with sleeping with one woman for the rest of his life or masturbating multiple times a day like when he was a teenager. A single man will have a Friend with Benefits that scratches his itch with no strings attached, but he will still be on the lookout for something new. Even in a relationship, men are notorious for stepping out to taste something new. There are women who speculate, “She’s not putting it on him in the bedroom. He needs someone to throw it down on him and he’ll be satisfied.” All bullshit theories. The hunt for sex has little to do with what a woman is or isn’t doing for a man sexually and everything to do with what New Pussy represents—Conquest! Again, same as for Ho Tactics Lambert has tons of great insights in “Why Men Don’t Love Women Like You”.As a person who was raised in a conservative Caribbean family, I haven't dated and most of the thoughts I have about finding a mate comes from my parents. Through reading this book, most of what my parents have advised me to do (i.e. taking time to observe the potential beau's character and personality, abstaining from physical affection until you're sure that the potential beau is someone you'd want to be exclusive with) was validated. In contrast to my parents, the author definitely delivered these messages in a more contemporary and witty fashion with 90s/00s pop references. Women tend to seek relationship advice more than men do. And they still get confused and don’t know what to do in some situations. Many inexperienced women will do everything to keep their men interested in them. But why? Because women think they must fight at all costs for the attention, love, and affection of a man. However, many of them will fight for the men who don’t even care about them. But what does it mean to be a “man” in today’s society? Terry Real, a renowned couple’s therapist, lecturer and bestselling author told Forbes, that “we all live under patriarchy, which is a rigid dichotomy of gender roles.” It tells us that men are supposed to be strong, independent, unemotional, logical and confident. Whereas women are assumed to be expressive, nurturing, weak and dependent. “Traditional gender roles don’t make anybody happy and they don’t make for intimacy,” he said.
A man is only as faithful as his options. What that means is that a man with few women who find him attractive is no different from a man who’s a famous athlete that thousands of women find attractive, in terms of his lust for something new. Mr. No Options wants to experience the rush of different women, but he behaves himself because there are no serious takers. Money can buy sex, and some men go that route, but for a man who isn’t willing to pay a prostitute and doesn’t have women threatening to throw it at him for free, he can’t act out on that thrill seeking. That fire still burns inside of him, but he is able to manage it better than the athlete, the celebrity, or regular Joe who women find to be “dream guy” attractive. For the record, this isn’t something that a man can’t control, chasing pussy isn’t like breathing air, any man can choose not to chase women. If one tells you it’s uncontrollable, he’s full of shit. I point this out not to make you see men as horny cavemen, but so you can stop lying to yourself about casting some kind of love spell because you had sex with a man. I want you to understand that all men have a roaring fire that they walk around engulfed in, and a smart woman can use that to her benefit (In a non Ho Tactics way) when gaining power over men. We’ll dive into this technique later on in the book, after you Spartan Up. He also fails to talk about the work we all need to do within ourselves to be a good partner for someone. the idea of an unexpected, deep question to blindside him and then make him feel safe to be himself is genius. Drop Hints of Sensuality Men live under the pressure of having to appear strong: they will not tell your anxieties if you ask them. Be prepared for 100% brutal honesty and it isn’t about playing silly games or following outdated “rules.” The book goes through a detailed blueprint of how to conduct yourself on a date, in a relationship, etc., but when it comes down to it, it’s all about self-respect, self-confidence, and never putting your true needs under the whims and desires of a guy who is just interested in making you a placeholder. Lastly, you will find yourself, your attitude, and expectations changing before you are even halfway finished. It’s that powerful. A must-have for today’s woman. Detail about Men Don’t Love Women Like You by G.L. Lambert ePubIf you are trying to impress James the Bouncer/Fitness instructor who only works 20 hours a week, he will be impressed with your degree, your car, your condo, and the fact that you don’t need a man for money. James is cute and charismatic, but he doesn’t have a pot to piss in, that is until he wins your heart. Once he wins you over, he now has a car, he now has a condo, and he has a walking bank run by an independent woman who doesn’t mind “helping out.” Wake up!
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