MASTERING THE ART OF CUNNINLINGUS (ORAL SEX): GUIDE TO GIVING HEAD LIKE A PRO (Oral Delights)

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Another thing that could be useful is to practice receiving in contexts outside of sex. So often it’s much easier to ingrain these habits or rewire old habits of not wanting to receive outside of a sexual context so that might be allowing someone to do something for you or receiving the gift of something so that if you can practice receiving on a daily basis it won’t seem that foreign when it comes to sex with another person.” She explains that using a safeguarding-conscious approach with actors, and the production series as a whole, naturally leads to nuanced storytelling because of how safe the setting for these scenes is. In her experience, being able to have these conversations and set these boundaries leads to realistic pleasure-based performances. The first and foremost step is making sure you and your partner are clean. You can do this by taking a shower together or soaking in the bath tub. You can use sweet scented soap or bathing gel to give her that sweet scent that will instantly get her turned on.

This isn’t a one-sided endeavour, you should be enjoying the experience too – so make yourself heard! ‘Chances are, if you’re giving oral sex, your mouth is a little preoccupied, but you can still express enjoyment,’ says Sabat. ‘Moaning, changing your breath, and pausing to ask your partner what sensations they most enjoy will help the receiver understand that you’re enjoying the experience, too. Remember: communication and enthusiasm are always sexy.’ 13. Build suspense It takes women 20 minutes on average to reach orgasm, so it’s important that you settle in for the journey, too:

5. This might sound obvious, but it’s all about licking and suckling.

To spit or to swallow? Communication is always crucial in any sexual experience, but it is especially necessary during oral sex. ‘Discuss how you and your partner would like to handle their climax to ensure that you both agree on how you’d like it to end, and remember these boundaries are key,’ says Sabat. ‘Do what makes you both feel most comfortable so you can enjoy the experience without worry.’ 25. Comfort is crucial It may come as zero surprise that men are much less likely than women to give oral sex in a mixed-sex relationship. In fact, in a study conducted for the Canadian Journal of Human Sexuality, only 44 percent of women reported receiving oral sex, compared with 63 percent of men. This is despite there being no gender differences regarding the amount of pleasure it gave them. It really is different rules, huh? Is our perception of pleasure changing? Isaac, many thanks for your response. Just to be clear, my article only finds Miller’s initial questioning of the cementedness of a traditional reading compelling. I actually find the content of Miller’s article wanting and overconfident. As I note, I think he’s right to say, “there is no particular reason to read verse 26 as referring to homosexual activity.” However, his argumentation to suggest that female to female eroticism is not a possibility is flawed (i.e. overconfident). As I explained in my article’s thesis, contra Miller: “Importantly, this is not to say that (1) Paul is not discussing female to female sexual activity in v. 26 as Miller argues (perhaps Paul is…), or that (2) female to female sexual activity would not have been an object of ridicule similar to passive oral and anal sex (for surely it was), rather I want to briefly show how using passive male to female sexual acts in Romans 1:26 could have served Paul’s argument well and why it should be considered more widely among scholars.” My intent was to call into question both Miller’s certitude as well as that of scholars on the other side of the aisle. I also wanted to give voice to the one sexual practice (i.e. cunnilingus) that has been neglected in this discussion, but could possibly offer some helpful insights to Paul’s meaning. So, as with you, I actually see all of these sexual acts (among both genders) as possibilities in Rom. 1:26…cheers! Very popular with women, cunnilingus is a sexual practice that consists of pleasuring a woman using your mouth to stimulate her genitals. Considered to be the female equivalent of fellatio, cunnilingus can provide women with intense pleasure, often leading to orgasm. In this article, discover the best cunnilingus techniques, as well as 70 beautiful cunnlingus gif of this very intimate activity.

Knight recommends the following 7 key steps to helping your partner reach clitoral nirvana: 1. Start slowly Use whole-body massage. Some women enjoy having their legs, arms, and/or breasts caressed while receiving oral. It sounds like the stuff of urban myth, but what you eat really does impact the smell and taste of your genitals. ‘Diuretic foods such as pineapple or melon are recommended to improve the taste and smell of genitals, while foods with stronger flavours, such as asparagus, broccoli, cabbage, or garlic, can alter the smell or flavour, and result in unpleasant smells or tastes,’ says Sabat. 5. Stay hydratedJames Miller has cleverly argued that Paul was referencing male to female non-procreative sexual acts, such as oral and anal sex, and that, “there is no particular reason to read verse 26 as referring to homosexual activity.” [4] Miller’s point is taken. If Paul’s purpose in Romans 1:24-27 was to reveal humanity’s (specifically, Gentiles’) ultimate degeneration from God then passive sexual acts like male to female cunnilingus and anal sex, which are inherently unmanly, would have been considered among the most perverse acts per Roman standards. Importantly, this is not to say that (1) Paul is not discussing female to female sexual activity in v. 26 as Miller argues (perhaps Paul is…), or that (2) female to female sexual activity would not have been an object of ridicule similar to passive oral and anal sex (for surely it was), rather I want to briefly show how using passive male to female sexual acts in Romans 1:26 could have served Paul’s argument well and why it should be considered more widely among scholars. More specifically, I want to examine Roman attitudes towards male to female cunnilingus, perhaps the most volatile and perverse sexual act in the ancient Roman world. While consistency is a safe bet for newer partners, it can be super sexy to try new things together. Variety, after all, is the spice of life. “I like when a dude keeps it fresh,” says Dana*, 28, from Philadelphia. “Change it up with different movements, try toys, put things inside me. Obviously ask if I’m okay with it, but I think the best orgasms come with variety.” What is included in broad general terms: “uncleanness” (akatharsia) “lewdness,”“wantonness,”“filth(iness),”“lasciviousness” (aselgeia) Temperature play can bring a whole new world of sensations to the bedroom. ‘If you and your partner agree to explore this type of play, I recommend bringing a glass filled with various sizes of ice cubes into the bedroom,’ says Sabat. ‘Put an ice cube in your mouth and roll it over your tongue before holding it near your lips. Then, drag the ice cube and your cold lips along different parts of your partner's body, exploring their genitals or anus with the ice and your cold lips to stimulate these regions.’ 33. Choose your lube

Anal oral sex can be complemented with the use of the hands and fingers, says Sabat. ‘Try exerting pressure on the entrance to the anus with a finger, caressing your partner’s legs, or, if your partner has breasts, try stimulating them with your hands while your mouth engages with their anus,’ she says. 31. Talk it out Words like “sinful”, “unnatural”, “perverse”, “degrading”, “degeneration”, “transgression”, etc. reflect the points of view of the various ancient authors, and not my own. Receivers, I don’t want that for you! And givers, I want you to love it because it’s fun, delicious and super enjoyable. Sitting: the woman can sit on a surface like a chair or table, and the man crouches or kneels to perform cunnilingus. Sexually transmitted infections ( STIs) can be transmitted through oral sex, so precautions are a must. ‘Anyone who has oral sex with an infected partner can get an STI on the genitals – penis, vagina, anus – or their mouth or throat,’ says Sabat. ‘Make no mistake, the reverse transmission is just as possible: if a person with a mouth or throat STI performs oral sex on their partner, they can spread the infection to their partner’s genitals.’Not every person enjoys oral sex the same way. Remember, the clitoral network is complex. Some only want external clitoral stimulation, while others want a combination of external and internal stimulation. (And some, of course, may want no external clitoral stimulation at all.) Hi Raymond, thanks for the comment(s). However, I think you misrepresent me on a couple of points. Here is my thesis: “Importantly, this is not to say that (1) Paul is not discussing female to female sexual activity in v. 26 as Miller argues (perhaps Paul is…), or that (2) female to female sexual activity would not have been an object of ridicule similar to passive oral and anal sex (for surely it was), rather I want to briefly show how using passive male to female sexual acts in Romans 1:26 could have served Paul’s argument well and why it should be considered more widely among scholars.” I do not claim to have THE correct interpretation (in fact, I am skeptical myself!), but rather I wanted to push against the consensus that assumes female to female sexual activity in Romans 1:26. I’m arguing that male to female passive acts (like cunnilingus or passive anal sex) should not be dismissed so easily…though neither should the other positions. Kerner’s approach to cunnilingus is unique in focusing on the commissure, which is the area right above the clitoris and clitoral hood. It’s a smooth area of skin that tends to get ignored, due to its proximity to the obviously more infamous clitoris. In his chapters on female anatomy, Kerner talks about the fact that pressure on the commissure can stimulate some of the internal fibers of the clitoris. Here’s one of Kerner’s specific technique for the pleasuring the commissure: I think this is, again, the wrong question to ask. Here you want assume that Paul must “adopt” Roman sexual norms…but, as I noted in my previous comment, can he not have familiarity enough with the ideas to combat them with his own (Jewish) views? To think that Paul wasn’t conversant and deeply familiar with the dominant culture of his day–or that Roman culture didn’t influence how he thought about his scriptural understanding–would be misguided.

Last week, we delved deep into how to give a fantastic blow job. This week, it's the ladies' turn — we turned once again to Kristen Tribby of The Pleasure Chest to help us figure out exactly what to do when mouth meets vagina. I got even go further, blaming religions of being responsible for asexuality (only for purpose of reproduction) but that might go a little to far. Yet still, many religious people seem not to understand the true nature of sexuality, giving and receiving pleasure, being intimate with each other, a form of life-style. Don’t deny sexuality to people, who want to have it beside reproduction. Lie down, then bend your knees and bend and hug your legs as close to your chest as they’ll go. The All Curled Up position will introduce an entirely new angle to oral sex, which may pave the way for some finger play or sex toy supplementation, too. I think it’s such an intimate act, having your face right up in somebody’s bits is one of the most intimate things you can do, also I love receiving it because it feels awesome,” she says.The best protection to use is a dental dam, essentially a thin sheath of latex or polyurethane that can stretch over the vulva. If you can’t find one, you can make one by cutting a condom into a rectangle sheet you can stretch out over the area. With your free hand, you can touch her breasts, gently squeeze her nipples, caress her stomach or place under a butt cheek for support.