How to share your wife with other men without destroying your marriage: The open-minded adult’s guide to successful cuckolding

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It’s not easy when you essentially want to have sex with someone else but still remain in your long-term loving relationship. Most people won’t understand that it’s not about cheating. It’s not about your partner not being enough. As an example of that communication and trust, here's a story one couple we met early on shared with us: Who would’ve thought that opening up our sex life to other people would make us even more turned on for each other? I’ve Become Hooked On Being Shared (We’ve Tried It Again) I am also self-conscious since I gained weight recently. But, I guess I felt adventurous enough to go to a nudist resort in spite of the weight gain. It's hard to explain, but, although I weigh too much, my weight is very evenly distributed, so I don't look as heavy as I really am. Still, I need to lose weight, and I'm definitely not anxious to have any kind of group sex anymore.

I said as long as he could get me showered and out the door in time for my second date with the muscle-bound guy from Thursday, then he was welcome to have me.However, I will say this: I have never in my life came so fast or so hard or even kept coming so many times in a row. outside the purview of whoredom, the general belief is that a man who consistently sexes a woman automatically subjects himself to being financially responsible to the woman – at least for her welfare. This might be one of the reasons your husband may want to share you with another man- the monetary benefit that comes with it.

If, on the other hand, you are both quite emotionally stable, secure in your relationship, and happy with your partner, you may find that choosing just one or two couples to wife share with can be the most fulfilling proposition. Ever find yourself visualizing steamy scenarios to get yourself turned on? You're far from the only one. Sexual fantasies are very common and very normal. "All forms of fantasy, kinky or otherwise, are a healthy part of sexuality," sex expert Ava Cadell, Ph.D., tells SELF. Your husband might be the type that simply derives motivation and some other gratifications known to him when he sees other men making love with you. This is further elaborated in David Ley’s Why would you do that? (Watch your wife with another man), some men actually opened up to him, saying because their wives are beautiful, they would prefer watching them being made love to by another man than watching some porn actress they don’t know. 2. Enhancement of sexual performance We stripped off our costumes, and he went down on me before taking me from behind. Three couples swapped in the space adjacent to us, their sex sounds and moans giving us a thrill that boosted both our orgasms. Tuesday Wife or husband sharing comes under different names like partner swapping, or wife swapping, swinging and many more.Of course, we should make it clear that you should never act on anything without getting explicit consent from everyone involved and in fact, you should make sure anyone you’re engaging in a sexual fantasy with is fully on board and understands your fantasy and the scope of how you want things to play out. But even if you know you’d never act on your fantasies—having a fantasy you don’t want to carry out IRL is really common—your thoughts might still scare you. It’s perfectly OK to seek help in understanding where they’re coming from. Which brings us to the next point… If you’re feeling unsure about your fantasy, a sex therapist or mental health professional may be able to help. So, here is my story about how my husband and I embarked on a partner-sharing journey. It hasn’t been the smoothest, but it was more than worth it in the end. Being a good sexual partner means trying to understand the needs, wants, and feelings of the people we’re intimate with. That calls for a lot of empathy flowing both ways.