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We’ve been making sure patrons wash and sanitise their hands and clothes before entering the venue,” says Britney Jane, an American in her 20s who has lived in Japan for five years and works at an S&M club in Osaka. Meanwhile in the two prison cells, one of which has a sex swing, two couples are having sex as the whole room watches. Advertisement for a club that offers sexual services except intercourse in the red light district of Tokyo’s Ikebukuro area. In Japan, oral sex is not considered prostitution. Photo: Tribune News Service via Getty Images Guests can expect everything they'd expect at any of our other parties,’ Kiwi says, explaining that the team will be building a club with a dancefloor, playroom, garden, bar and wellness sanctuary in the festival. ‘We’ll be controlling it entirely – there won’t be any festival staff in the space whatsoever.’

It’s a mixed bag, but it’s a much younger crowd than I’d anticipated and most of them are fairly attractive.A branch of Isomaru Suisan, one of Tokyo’s biggest izakaya chains. Many restaurants are offering alternatives to after-work drinking and eating at such establishments. Photo: Lucy Dayman From Crossbreed ’s queer fetish raves to The Fox Den ’s 24-guest hedonistic dinner parties (complete with a four-course meal cooked by a private chef and after-dinner ‘play’ for dessert), the choice of sex-positive events in London is as mind-boggling as it is arousing. And with everything from popular underground DJs to luxury sex toys on offer, it’s the perfect set-up for a new generation to lube up and join the ride. ‘It used to be that people would come to explore the scene in their thirties and forties, but now we are seeing much younger people in their twenties,’ says Sinead, who’s been involved in the sex-positive community since 2015 and launched The Fox Den in June last year. VFD, better known by its former name Vogue Fabrics to some, is a bijou Dalston club that attracts the top fashion aficionados around London. Here, on top of the incredible outfits you’ll be treated to, you’ll get to attend nights such as Sassitude and witness the famous penis mural that resides in the toilet. How could you not love a night out like that? Gaia was sexually assaulted at a popular late-night bar in Camden in 2017. ‘I felt really violated, but the thought of reporting it didn’t even cross my mind,’ she says. ‘I had no idea you could even go to the police for that kind of thing. I always have a fear that it’s going to happen again.’ The dungeon affords lots of excitement,’ Master Boudoir explains, including a padded wall, a St. George’s cross and a spanking bench with restraints. Sometimes, couples will say to me ‘Master Boudoir we’ve seen you do your thing, would you mind showing us your techniques’.

With time, I understood that – especially around Nanjing Road, the most touristic pedestrian road of Shanghai – it’s easier to find a hooker than a decent pizza (unless you like Pizza Hut). Although it has been documented that sex in the KTV may happen – see the book Red Lights: The Lives of Sex Workers in Postsocialist China by Prof. Zheng for the crude details, – these rooms are not the equivalent of a bedroom where the customers have sex with the workers. We've talked about why we like AFF so much plenty of times in the past but it boils down to a couple of things: Lots of alcohol and a pretty girl in a skimpy outfit who is not shy, likes to laugh and sit in your lap while she lavishes you with attention and brings you more alcohol … plus a little food. No worries if you don’t speak a work of ChInese. There is always WeChat and the translator to communicate.

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Even if there’s a spit roast happening in one corner and someone getting spanked in another, sexual activity is by no means obligatory. ‘I think people are surprised that they don't have to get naked,’ says Sayle. ‘And that actually, it’s not a bunch of sex-crazed weirdos – these are really cool people.’ As we enter the main floor, the club’s social room, the atmosphere is mixed; some couples are sat huddled together on sofas, while others are eyeing each other up, and one lady is having a spin on the stripper pole. Xtasia is one of the UK's longest and most well established Swingers and Fetish clubs, located in the Midlands area. Since 2011 it has been under new ownership and has transformed into a unique complex of nightclub, pub and hotel, all behind closed doors. Run by folks who really know about adult lifestyles and alternative fetish requirements.